Signs You've Found Your Person

Relationships are hard, let me make it easier for you with this list of some signs you have found your ideal partner:

1. They Understand your Communication Styles

When they are someone who understands if you are an overthinker and soothes your anxiety rather than lets you spiral. They understands when you need space or when you need to be comforted; they don't push your emotional limitations.

2. They Make Time for You

Everyone is busy, but you make time for those you want to see. Only a couple of times in the beginning of dating can you make the same excuse. If they wanted to, they would.

3. You can be in silence with them and it's not awkward

You feel at ease in silence or in a crowd with them. You can easily find them in a room or can sit in a quiet space, both of you doing your own thing and feel comfortable. 

4. They fulfill your love language

Your love language with your partner does not have to always match up perfectly, but they have to be willing to work to complete or fulfill your love language. This can be through knowing what yours is and intentionally doing the small things that they know you appreciate and like just because they know it will make you feel good.

5. They respect your boundaries

This one is straight forward; if they don't respect your boundaries, then they don't respect you. I have learned that boundaries are put up because people want to keep you in their life and are saying I will keep you in my space if you follow these rules and precedences that I am laying out for you.

6. You are physically and emotionally compatible

Love languages aside, physical and emotional compatibility is rare. Lust is easy, emotional vulnerability is difficult and frankly very hard to get. Don't get the two confused though as it's very easy to mix up which is what but to keep it clear, if they do all the things on this post then it's love and if they only give you their body and compliment your physical features, then it's lust.

7. You respect each other's political views

You and your partner don't have to be aligned on every political issue, but having similar political views can make things easier and usually mean you are more aligned intellectually and spiritually.

8. You are on the same page about holidays and family time

How you like to spend your holidays and family time can be a make or break deal for a lot of people. It's a good idea to have the conversation early on if you have expectations of always being at your family's house for the holidays as your partner may want the same thing for themself. 

9. You aren't confused if they like you or not

If your partner is making you feel confused or questioning whether or not they like you, then they don't. It's that simple. A good partner would never make you feel confused and would be able to communicate effectively and clearly about their feelings and where they stand in the relationship.